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2023.06.08 13:03 Altruistic_Handle543 30 M4F Hotel fun
Just looking for a chick to grab a hotel with and have some fun. Get some food watch some movies or shows. Get freaky of course! Don’t have an age preference race or any of that so long as your clean with no diseases. Let’s see what happens
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2023.06.08 13:00 Brilliant-Ant-2001 Revenge on Ex-girlfriend: what was your worst revenge?
Me(22 years old at the time) and she(21 years old at the time) was togheter for 4 years. I doscovered that she was cheating on me with a guy that was my ex best friend and so I decided to have fun with them and make them angry. I'm lucky that I was born in a family of very rich people and I discovered that my ex and her side boyfriend was using my credit card so I planed a vacations of 2 weeks at dubai in a 5 star hotel and I get the reservation for 2 people but 1 of them wasn't me but her side boyfriend. So when we arrived at night and while she was sleeping i took my clothes and everything and went home but before i blocked my crediti card. So when the next day the side boyfirend arrived they were surprsied and on the bed there were photos of them both kissing and making out. But the best part is about to come.... when I blocked my card the receptionist of the hotel come to the room to ask if they was having money to pay the room and restaurant but obviously they wasn't having enough. So I recieved like 300 messages form her and her boyfirend to ask me to pay so they can fly back home and explain me. But I ghosted them and so their parents(which one i send the pictures too) didn't want to help them out. They was calling me and crying and begging me to pay for them. Obviously i didn't and so after 2 days they want back home and they broke up. She is still texting me and calling me to give her another chance. But I just ghost her ahahah
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2023.06.08 12:59 chundapalaceudr Luxury Hotel In Udaipur
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2023.06.08 12:58 Doctor-Patronising Dan Ganronpa here, while eating breakfast at the buffet in my hotel - I had a rather nice conversation with a detective. They then gave me a whip, which was odd. Still appreciated it
2023.06.08 12:55 Popular_Argument_138 My (30F) husband (35M) might be having an emotional affair
This is probably gonna be lengthy because it’s been going on for awhile.
My (30F) husband (35M) has a relationship with a coworker that just makes my spidey-sense tingle.
For context, we've been together for almost 5 years and got in engaged in February 2020, right before Covid hit. And my husband started the job he is at now back in September 2020. He instantly clicked with one of the girls (he’s the only man in the office), let’s call her Molly, and couldn’t stand anyone else. At first, I had no issues towards her, not even when she mentioned to him that she was gonna “creep” my facebook. Or when she would just always compliment my eyebrows, only my eyebrows, asking whether I got them done, or I do them myself.
Flash forward to May 2021, and we were on vacation with my sister and her fiancé, starting to plan our destination wedding. The whole time we were out planning, he would be snap chatting her, and at one point he snapped a picture of my sister (we look nothing alike), and she asked him if it was his fiancé or her sister, which I thought was kinda weird for someone who said they were gonna creep someone’s social media, or just for the fact that I knew he showed her a picture of me before (our engagement photos) But it wasn’t weird enough I really thought anything of it.
In August 2021, I found out I was unexpectedly pregnant, so we decided to have our wedding a whole year early. In September 2021, I was hospitalized for 4 days, with an infection that if the antibiotics didn’t work and I ended up needing surgery, I would lose the pregnancy. 4 days I sat in the hospital by myself, even though he was off of work. My husband (then fiancé) only came to visit one of the days I was there, for a couple of hours, and the whole time he snap chatted Molly, and was asking me about my eyebrows, again. Didn’t even try to comfort me about the fact I had to turn my phone off because my family was bombarding me with messages of my dad’s infidelity.
We got married in October 2021, and it was a beautiful, last minute ceremony (I planned it all by myself without any input from him), that he really wanted to do before the baby came. Toward the end of October, we went to see a professional hockey game since my boss offered us tickets right on the ice by the team. As we were there, he was telling me one of his friends was also there, and he showed me a Snapchat his friend sent him. Once that Snapchat finished, it went back to his inbox of messages and I seen his coworker wrote him. He didn’t open it while I was looking, and I as turned my attention back to the game, out of the corner of my eye I seen him turn his phone away from my view and start typing. I didn’t say anything until a couple days later and I asked if this was something I should worry about and he assured me it was nothing, and that she was even trying to convince her boyfriend to have a baby so I literally had nothing to worry about. I expressed it was weird that she was had to “convince” her long time boyfriend to have a baby, especially at the time I was pregnant. But, I let it go thinking it was just my hormones.
After this, I noticed he would be texting her or snapping her, even more outside of work. He gets out at 4:30, and would sometimes be texting her until 8:30-9:30pm. Eventually in late November, we traveled to see his favorite football team,. I got him super good seats, that were expensive, for his birthday, booked a hotel, and we made a weekend of it. This time when I seen his Snapchat, I noticed they were best friends on there. And that was just a huge red flag for me.
The following night, after we got home, I asked him about her being his best friend on Snapchat and expressed how uncomfortable it made me, and expressed that I’ve had this feeling in the past and brushed it off and I was actually right about the situation. He told me I couldn’t take my past out on him. That he would never cheat on me. I asked him to delete her off Snapchat and only converse with her where the messages could be recorded (text message and g-chat at work). He said he would just delete his whole Snapchat account. Now, my husband is super outgoing and really likes his social media so this felt weird to me, and I told him it was strange he’d to go to such an extent for a coworker. I also told him I didn’t want him bringing her up to me at any time (he talked about her a lot). He also posted a picture of me to social media that weekend with a cowboy filter, mentioning “sometimes I’m his wife, sometimes a cowboy, but I’ll always be his baby mama”. Molly commented on the post and emphasized “always be your baby mama” with laughing emojis, which my husband reacted with a laughing emoji too. Even though I expressed in the past how I felt about being called his baby mama (I don’t like it), and one of the reasons he pushed to get married before the baby was born was because he promised his grandma he wouldn’t have a kid before marriage. I’m not only the mother of his child, but his wife, and by calling me his baby mama, he’s down playing my role in his life.
We got into an argument about it all and didnt talk for a few days. We work opposite schedules, so instead of going to stay with my parents and having to answer questions, I would avoid the times we would be at home together because I needed some space. Eventually he texted me to apologize, and said that I need to trust him. That he would never cheat on me. I told him no one thinks they’re gonna cheat, and he don’t know how he would react when put into that situation, but I would like him to avoid even being put into that situation where it’s a possibility since our bodies do have physiological reactions, and I have experienced that before personally. He told me he would delete her off Snapchat and only talk to her through text or g-chat so if I wanted to read the messages I could. That he never meant to make me feel like he was prioritizing her, and didn’t stop to think how he’d feel if the roles were reversed.
I never asked if he deleted her off Snapchat, I figured I should at least trust him to do what he says. But I have gone through his messages with her and most of it is innocent. There was one message where she took a screenshot of her conversation with one of the techs where she asked him to take her for a ride in his corvette, and she sent it to my husband and said “look who asked me out”. My husband asked her “isn’t he married”, and she responded “don’t tell anyone though”.
My husband knows I have gone through his phone, like he told me I could, but has made indirect comments about how nobody should go through their SO phone. Relationships are all about trust, etc. he also snap chatted me a picture of all the conversations he had going with the office girls on g-chat, and I noticed Molly’s history was turned off. I asked him if he knew this and he said “lol yeah”. After a few months of not bringing her up, and sneaking away to text her back instead of doing it in front me (like going to the bathroom, or stopping in the middle of walking to type), then he started to casually bring her back into our conversations again.
In April 2022 I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. I had to have an emergency c-section, so once the baby came out, I told my husband to go with her and the nurses. A couple of weeks after, my gut told me to check his messages. I did and I seen he sent a picture of my baby to Molly 10 minutes after she was born, after he sent it in a group chat to his parents and sister. She got a picture before my parents and siblings. She got a picture while I was still cut open on the table and I didn’t even get to see my until 5 minutes after he sent Molly the picture. When I asked why he sent her a picture 10 minutes after she was born, he said “because she asked for one”. My baby was also born late at night. This was the hardest part to swallow. He only knew this girl for a year and half, and she was so important that she got pictures immediately? After the most important people of in his life? He didn’t even send pictures to his best friend that he’s been friends with for over 20 years, until late the next morning.
While I was on maternity leave, his manager asked him to work a half hour later to close on the days his “bff” (what his manager called Molly) had to close. I told him this made me uncomfortable, them being alone for a half hour, and that his manager knew he wouldn’t say no to closing just because it was with her. This entire 1st year of postpartum, I definitely feel like we’ve grown apart in our relationship. Of course we’re navigating being new to parenthood, but it just seems like he’s always angry with me. Making snide remarks. Giving me dirty looks. And still just coming home talking about Molly.
I finally got to meet Molly at his work holiday party, and it was completely awkward. Not only did she barely say hi to me, she almost didn’t even shake my hand i had extended out to her, but her boyfriend treated my husband coldly (he normally makes friend with everyone, anywhere he goes). We put our jackets to sit by them, and went around to mingle some more, and she let someone move them so we couldn’t sit by them, and then they ended up leaving extra early. The vibes were just totally off.
The most recent incidence was he was talking to our daughter, and I was listening and made a comment about something he said and he told my daughter that I’m always eavesdropping and reading. I asked what he meant, and he said “you know, since you read through my messages”, and I told him to ask me the last time I went through his messages, so he did, and I told him that I haven’t since a couple weeks after my baby was born. He said this was shocking and he didn’t know if it was a good thing or not that I trust him.
This also isn’t the first issue we’ve had over a coworker. At his previous job, I seen him messaging a coworker talking stuff about me and how he didn’t think I would be helpful after construction was done in our house. When I confronted him, he cried and begged me not to leave him. He even stopped talking to her. Which makes his reaction with this situation regarding Molly more suspicious to me.
I can’t tell if I’m going crazy, or if my husband has feelings for Molly. He’s also had conversations with her mom (says she calls the office). Writes on her Facebook wall about random things teasing her (which is his love language). I feel like he treats her the way he treats me and he shouldn’t be treating anyone else like he treats me. He even talks to her more than me. And most times we talk, it’s about the care for our daughter. Even when we’re intimate, he seems different than he did before meeting her. I feel like I’ve been going outta my mind the last year trying to make sense of this, holding resentment. And I just don’t feel comfortable to keep bringing it up, and having the same conversation again. So here I am on Reddit, looking for advice on my situation
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2023.06.08 12:51 LGBTQIA_Over50 Help- what places hire middle aged women with experience? USA
I have multi-industry skills and advanced degrees. I can leave off the advanced degree and keep one on the resume.
I need income now. I can't get hired into survival, barely get by, gas money jobs. Yet I need gas and food money now.
"But you won't stay, so why should we hire you when you'll look somewhere else?"
Is pan handling the alternative?
I have to eat, maintain a car, pay credit card balance, car insurance renewal, have a place to live. That isn't possible on a $20/hour job.
$20/hour equals $16/hour net minus dental care and benefits
"You should apply to the professional leadership jobs"
True, but I can't get those. We are dealing with anti credentialism now (Google it). That means those who spent years developing critical thinking skills are unemployable because if a manager interviews me and I have too much education and they don't have any, they'll hire their friend.
I can't do physical labor. Yet I applied for a passenger conductor job at Amtrak. Will they hire me? I dunno. I can walk and talk with people. I can't lift very heavy machine equipment. I have all the office, technology and professional business skills.
I need an income to cover an apt, utilities, a car, insurance, gas, food, clothes, dental and medical care. One root canal and crown is $3,800. My one car repair cost $1,800.
What is the "get a job to bring in money while you keep looking?"
Employers won't hire me if I work at McDonald's. McDonald's won't hire me period. I can't do fast food work because it requires janitorial work, doing the work of more than one person when people call out, high stress on low pay, and no way to pay for an apt to have a place to live.
Hotels won't hire me. I applied for general manager, but those jobs are filled by 20 and 30 year olds. Pay is $55-$60k minus taxes and benefits. Night auditor, and front desk are the equivalent to fastfood gas money, customer facing, demanding, "hurry up I need to go ma'am," demanding jobs.
The local Walmart has non English speaking people. They won't hire me. They are work opportunity tax credit hires (Google WOTC).
Starbucks is too fast paced and chaotic between mobile orders, drive thru window and having to wear a one sided ear piece headset at all times (i can't do that while walking and talking to customers face to face while the ear piece is on).
I need something with early morning hours, that is safe and will pay me more than $20/hour.
Please help me with ideas. I am aging out of the workforce and no one wants to hire me due to my age. There are a lot of scammer ads on Reddit and Indeed.
I'll be panhandling soon due to lack of pay. I can't wait tables or bartend. Thats too fast paced and chaotic like Starbucks.
Temp agencies can't market me because they are sales people who have no industry experience. I worked in HR and staffing companies aren't HR people. They market work opportunity tax credit hires to save the employers money and those employers general terminate the assignments on a whim. Staffing agencies are glorified pimps.
I don't need to prove my value. I have value. Employers want to pay cheap and force people to cohabitate. My resumes are well written, down to one page, and customized to the job. If people get jobs based on who they know, then my resume won't do anything.
What ideas do you have, and I'll respond intermittently.
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2023.06.08 12:48 LGBTQIA_Over50 Help - what places hire middle aged women with experience USA
I have multi-industry skills and advanced degrees. I can leave off the advanced degree and keep one on the resume.
I need income now. I can't get hired into survival, barely get by, gas money jobs. Yet I need gas and food money now.
"But you won't stay, so why should we hire you when you'll look somewhere else?"
Is pan handling the alternative?
I have to eat, maintain a car, pay credit card balance, car insurance renewal, have a place to live. That isn't possible on a $20/hour job.
$20/hour equals $16/hour net minus dental care and benefits
"You should apply to the professional leadership jobs"
True, but I can't get those. We are dealing with anti credentialism now (Google it). That means those who spent years developing critical thinking skills are unemployable because if a manager interviews me and I have too much education and they don't have any, they'll hire their friend.
I can't do physical labor. Yet I applied for a passenger conductor job at Amtrak. Will they hire me? I dunno. I can walk and talk with people. I can't lift very heavy machine equipment. I have all the office, technology and professional business skills.
I need an income to cover an apt, utilities, a car, insurance, gas, food, clothes, dental and medical care. One root canal and crown is $3,800. My one car repair cost $1,800.
What is the "get a job to bring in money while you keep looking?"
Employers won't hire me if I work at McDonald's. McDonald's won't hire me period. I can't do fast food work because it requires janitorial work, doing the work of more than one person when people call out, high stress on low pay, and no way to pay for an apt to have a place to live.
Hotels won't hire me. I applied for general manager, but those jobs are filled by 20 and 30 year olds. Pay is $55-$60k minus taxes and benefits. Night auditor, and front desk are the equivalent to fastfood gas money, customer facing, demanding, "hurry up I need to go ma'am," demanding jobs.
The local Walmart has non English speaking people. They won't hire me. They are work opportunity tax credit hires (Google WOTC).
Starbucks is too fast paced and chaotic between mobile orders, drive thru window and having to wear a one sided ear piece headset at all times (i can't do that while walking and talking to customers face to face while the ear piece is on).
I need something with early morning hours, that is safe and will pay me more than $20/hour.
Please help me with ideas. I am aging out of the workforce and no one wants to hire me due to my age. There are a lot of scammer ads on Reddit and Indeed.
I'll be panhandling soon due to lack of pay. I can't wait tables or bartend. Thats too fast paced and chaotic like Starbucks.
Temp agencies can't market me because they are sales people who have no industry experience. I worked in HR and staffing companies aren't HR people. They market work opportunity tax credit hires to save the employers money and those employers general terminate the assignments on a whim. Staffing agencies are glorified pimps.
I don't need to prove my value. I have value. Employers want to pay cheap and force people to cohabitate.
What ideas do you have, and I'll respond intermittently.
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2023.06.08 12:45 alalalada Etihad Transit connect Abu Dhabi questions
Hello, I'm thinking of booking a flight with Etihad that has a 21 hour layover in Abu Dhabi on the return leg. I think that would mean I would be eligible for "transit connect" so I would get a free hotel room for a night. The problem is my flight arrives at around 5am so would I have to wait untill 14:00 until regular check in time ? Also would my checked luggage go thru to my final destination or would I have to collect them in Abu Dhabi ? Has anyone used Etihads transit connect, how did you find it ? Was it easy to sort after you had your flights booked ? Did it give you time to see Abu Dhabi or did it make the journey feel longer ? Thanks:)
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2023.06.08 12:41 psycotic_dragon_121 new home pick your poison
you are given a challenge survive 30 years in a remarkably unpleasant fictional location and you will not only be put back into the prime of your life but also get to live in paradise "whatever form that takes for you" with everyone you care about.
To sweeten the deal you get to pick your fictional place to live they are though your stay has been timed to meet the absolute worst of the events that occur there
mega city one: judge dread
mordor: lord of the rings
the overlook hotel: the shining
the land of always winter: asoiaf
district 12: the hunger games
zion: the matrix
silent hill: silent hill
innsmouth: shadow over innsmouth
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2023.06.08 12:39 Poldaran I think someone missed last month's quota...
Phone call scammers. You know em. You hate em. But at the end of the day, they're just drones like us. Of course, they're on the Chaotic Evil side of the spectrum while we're on the Lawful Evil...what do you mean? You're not? It's really just me?
Weird.
I mean, I know there's the unicorn. But I was thinking black unicorn, riding down the side of an erupting volcano as we drink, drink, drink from a chalice filled with the blood and tears of our enemies.
No?
Anyway. They often work in call centers. That's the first clue you get about what kind of call you've just answered. You can hear the din in the background. And that means it's either tech support - who you haven't called, by the way - or your company's reservation line - ugh, am I right? - or something else.
Something sinister. Like a third party OTA. Or one of these chucklefucks. The topic of tonight's story/rant.
Well, just like any outgoing sales call center, these people have certain pressures. Gotta make the "sale". Gotta pump those numbers up up up!
I've always hated sales. Boss breathing down your neck. Asking why you haven't been moving units this month. Yeah screw that stress. While I can't say that there's no dollar figure that would induce me to take such a job, I will say that the number is cost prohibitive at least.
So what does this have to do with tonight? Well, I got a call. Our cast includes "The Owner"(dun dun DUUUNNNNNN!) and me(The One and Only Poldaran, accept no substitutions or rain checks).
Let's set the scene. I'm about to make a quick pit stop, so I start walking away from the desk, only to hear one of my least favorite sounds. The phone. I walk over, grab it and... it's a bad connection. No one on the other line. I make sure to let anyone who can hear me know that I can't hear them, and to try calling back, maybe we'll get a better connection.
I decide to wait five minutes. I mean, yeah, I kinda gotta pee. But it's not that bad. Minute four, phone rings again. Different number. Interesting. I pick up and give my Standard Hotel Greeting.
Me: "...and this is Poldaran speaking. How can I assist you this evening?"
TO: "Hello, can you hear me this time?"
Me: "Ah, yes. Sorry about that on the last one. It's still a bit staticky, but I can hear you. What can I help you with tonight?"
TO: "I need to leave a message for Miss . It's very important."
Me, internally: "Ah, he's bringing out the serious voice. Wants to sound like he's commanding someone. This is almost certainly a scam."
Me: "We can do that. Lemme grab a notepad real quick."
TO: "Do you know who this is, Poldaran?"
Me, internally: "Well, I'm certain I do now, but let's see how you decide to play this."
Me: "Sorry, I can't say I do. I've got that notepad and I'm ready for your message."
TO: "This is , THE OWNER."
Yeah, emphasized the everloving shit out of those two words.
Me, internally: "Hmm. Well, definitely a scammer. Haven't done a witch test in a while. Nah. We'll just play dumb."
Me: "Sorry, I didn't quite catch that name. Can you repeat that? Also, maybe spell it for me?"
TO: "THIS. IS. THE. OWNER."
Me: "I still need your name."
TO: "I don't have to give you my name. I am THE OWNER."
Me: "I'm sorry to hear about your dementia. Forgetting our own names is one of those tragedies. Is there someone I can call for you? A friend or family member?"
TO: "FUCK YOU, POLDARAN!"
I'd say someone has a case of the Mondays, but then the rest of you would be legally obligated to kick my ass. Also, it's like, Thursday or something at this point. So the logical conclusion is that scam call center drone is getting shit from his boss about not moving enough units or whatever. Probably missed last month's quota and is looking at termination if he doesn't turn this franchise around.
Couldn't happen to a nicer guy, IMO.
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2023.06.08 12:39 tulsa89 Thankful to not be hungover this morning
I am on vacation with my wife and 5 yo daughter in France. I haven’t had a drink in almost 2 years. Before, vacations were centered around drinking, and being in France, there is such a strong drinking culture here.
This morning we were at a park in Annecy when a man attacked multiple children with a knife. We heard the screaming and watched as the attacker started running towards us. I grabbed my daughter and we started running. We were able to get away safely before the cops shot him. We got back to our hotel and we talked about it. It hit me that if I had been hungover I may not have noticed the screaming, my body may not have been able to run away carrying my 50 lb daughter. I am so grateful. Grateful for being safe and my daughter not being a victim, but also grateful that I was clear headed, hydrated and able to protect her and my wife. Hungover (or let’s be honest 2 or 3 vacation breakfast drinks deep) me may not be able to say that. IWNDWYT
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2023.06.08 12:37 OverlordVII Title: Seeking Advice for a Central, Affordable Stay in Paris for 2-3 Days
Hey, fellow travellers! I'm planning a short trip to Paris, mainly to see Ben Howard perform at the Philharmonic, and would love some advice on finding a central and reasonably priced accommodation option. I'll be staying for 2-3 days and I'm looking for a place to spend the nights that covers all the basic needs, but preferably doesn't wreck the bank.
I'm open to suggestions for bed and breakfasts or budget-friendly hotels that provide a comfortable experience. I understand that Paris can be quite expensive and I have had bad experiences in the past when going for cheaper places, so I figured that it might be a good idea to ask you guys for suggestions for places/websites/areas/etc. I can trust.
Ideally, I'd love to stay in a central location, allowing easy access to popular attractions and public transportation. Being close to the heart of the city would be a plus, as I want to make the most of my short stay and minimize travel time.
If any of you have personal recommendations or know of places that offer good value for money, I'd greatly appreciate your insights. Please feel free to share your experiences with specific accommodations, tips for finding affordable options, or any other advice that could help me make the most of my stay.
Looking forward to hearing from you lovely people! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2023.06.08 12:36 hotelbookingsoft r/HotelBsoft Lounge
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2023.06.08 12:36 ThrowRa_Hovercraft I (29M) am starting to feel burned out by my girlfriend's (28F) issues
Hi Reddit, We've been together for almost a year now. I love her to bits but there are a couple of things that have been really getting to me recently. For a bit of context these things have been ongoing since the start of our relationship but especially got to me after a recent trip we went on that lasted a couple of days.
Firstly and the biggest factor is her negativity. She pretty much always looks at the negative side of things. She gets down/upset a lot and when I ask her about it, a lot of the time she either says she's doesn't know why or she refuses to tell me saying it's petty or not worth bothering me about. She cries multiple times a week. For example on our trip, both nights we stayed at the hotel she ended crying multiple times in the night over the fact she was having trouble sleeping. She also cried when I went outside to sit and watch the view, because she thought I didn't want to be around her, when I just wanted to quiet time to myself. She has also told me she hides it from me sometimes when she's sad because she doesn't want me to see her sad and she doesn't want to bring me down. Some small things can set her off sometimes too. If I look at her in the wrong way sometimes that can upset her or if I just want to sit down in bed and not be hugging/cuddling she thinks I don't like physical contact with her. I try to support her in the best way I can but it never seems to help. It feels like we can't go more than a couple of days without her crying about something or even a day without her getting sad about something. We've talked about getting her some help. She's spoken to her doctor and has said she's on a waiting list to see a psychiatrist but she has been waiting for months. She refuses to take medication. I don't blame her for being depressed not do I hold it against her, she's had a rough past including parental abuse and abandonment, rape, child death, self harm and suicide attempts, but the constant cycle of negative emotions is slowly grinding me down.
The second thing is her eating habits. She is an extremely restricted and fussy eater. For example, a shop-bought quiche can be delicious one time, but the next time, with the same quiche from the same shop, she will put a piece in her mouth and have to spit it out without even chewing. This makes cooking for her, ordering takeaway, or taking her out places to eat very difficult. I want to do so but I've come to dread it as I can't guarantee there will be any dishes she likes the look of let alone enjoys/is able to eat when she takes a bite. Again I don't blame her for this, I've always taken the position of if she enjoys it great if not then oh well. I do everything I can to never belittle her for her eating habits or force/guilt her to eat something she doesn't want to, but it is wearing me out a bit. To be fair on her she is always willing to try new things but it is rare that she can find something she considers enjoyable.
The only other thing worth mentioning is small. She has a comfort blanket she rubs when she's anxious. It's made of polyester and the sound it makes when she rubs it is like nails on a chalkboard to me. I don't have an issue with the blanket itself but the sound. She gets a little down when I ask her if she can stop when she's around me as I find it grating. She likes it when she's anxious but I can't see a way around the issue of the noise.
This isn't to say she isn't trying to do better. For example when we first got together she had some issues with drinking. When she got drunk she would get very angry and shout at me over very small things. Like one time she left my headphones at the pub. We went back to get them as they were in the town over we had to drive the whole journey she was in a foul mood and shouted at me for not supporting her because she was in a bad mood and making her feel like shit by going back for my head phones. They were a fairly expensive set of head phones so I wanted them back. We talked about that and she did recognise she isn't great when drunk so nowadays she tried to avoid drinking too much. So she is working to improve on herself but in other ways it feels like little or no progress at all.
Can I please get some advice on how to proceed/where to go from here? These issues have not improved much since we got together. I really love her and she is a wonderful, caring, lovely girl when she's in the right mood but I'm starting to feel a bit ground down.
TL;DR I'm starting to feel worn out by some of my girlfriend's personal issues that felt especially apparent during a recent hotel stay on a trip. Not sure of how to proceed due to feeling burned out.
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2023.06.08 12:36 lostaoldier481 How to chill out on vacation?
I really have no idea where to post this. I considered posting it under
anxietyhelp for a moment but landed here. In 2 weeks I will be taking my first ever real "vacation" of my life. I'll be traveling with my girlfriend's family to Lebanon for 2 weeks for her brother and his wife's
2nd wedding this year.
We come from very different socioeconomic backgrounds. Her family has traveled to 6 continents and regularly spends several weeks out of the year traveling. I've been out of my state maybe three times, once by accident and twice to rescue family during COVID. If it were up to me I'd have taken the money for the trip and spent it on car repairs or put it towards paying off student debt, but that's neither here nor there.
I really don't think I know
how to vacation. I've certainly taken leisure days to go to like the beach or a theme park, but these were one off day trips. My vacation days from work are usually spent on doctor's visits, home repairs, or helping other people with their projects. I honestly prefer it that way. I prefer to be productive. The most idle I'll get is spending a whole day gaming while de-stressing from work, and even those days I spend at least a few hours doing household chores.
I'm starting to get freaked out by the idea of this trip because it's sounding like they take a very free-form approach to their trips here. I'd be much more comfortable if we had some kind of a goal to accomplish, but my understanding is that other than the wedding it's just sort of freeform leisure in a foreign country.
So I guess my question is this: How do you spend multiple days in a foreign country, or anywhere for that matter, just entertaining yourself? I'd understand if we were going somewhere with a set list of "tourist destinations" but that doesn't seem to be the plan for us. I just want to be able to not embarrass my girlfriend or her family by wanting to spend time in a hotel de-stressing from work, or being uncomfortable with something like having servants (her family is rather well off here, imagine what it's like back in "the old country"). Any and all suggestions, especially ones specific to Lebanon, appreciated!
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2023.06.08 12:31 griko_earthian Appreciation post for Jaipur!
| I spent six months as an intern in Jaipur in 2019, and I fell in love with the city. It was an adventure from the raucous Sindhi camp to the serene Jal Mahal, from having poha near WTP in the morning to encountering a leopard at night. I stayed at the "66 residency" hotel in Civil Lines and fell in love with its balcony rooms. We went for late-night walks and returned after a cup of chai from Sahu ji chaiwale. Samrat Kachori's Pyaaz kachori and lassi were delicious. This city has a certain allure about it that you can never get enough of. I haven't been there in years, but a part of me misses the pink city. Returning to the city in July! गुलाबी शहर के इश्क ने मुझे भी गुलाबी करदिया submitted by griko_earthian to jaipur [link] [comments] |
2023.06.08 12:31 missade69 Looking for holiday summer reads with a twist
Last year I read the Hummingbird Hotel series by Daisy James and loved them. I'm looking for books to read simular that and also something a bit more smutty/erotic. Think holiday romance with a twist. Love a bit of crime and thriller too! If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. On Kindle would be great as take that on holiday with me
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2023.06.08 12:24 CankerSoreJohn I wonder what a baj is doing alone on a hotel room on a Saturday with a 9mm handgun, a rug and some cleaning supplies 🤔
2023.06.08 12:23 NineTalesScripts [M4F] The young master of the mafia clan [Possessive] [Blackmail] [Yandere] [Twist] [Criminal Underworld]
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Premise: You are the daughter of the city’s second most powerful mafia clan. Since the death of the most powerful mafia boss in the city, his son has ascended to his position. Your mother sent you to him to deliver a traditional welcome, but also to see how the inexperienced boy can be used and manipulated. However, your expectations are soon to be subverted...
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(Part 1: superficially polite conversation)
Speaker: *muffled, behind door* “Are there any more?... Oh no, I can still go on, let her in.”
[Door opens and closes]
Speaker: “Welcome, please come in and have a seat. Make yourself comfortable.” *To someone else* "You can leave us alone now… No, it'll be fine! We're all friends here after all! The criminal underworld has to stick together, am I right?... Oh yes, we're not supposed to call it that, are we? I apologize, I am still learning the ropes of this new… position I found myself in… Anyway, please leave us alone. I am sure nothing dangerous will happen. Your guys also searched her for weapons when she came in, didn't they?... See? Everything will be fine, so just go… Thank you. I appreciate how worried you always are about me!"
[Door opens and closes]
Speaker: "I am so sorry you had to see that. I hope you didn't feel offended by his suspicions."
Listener: *denies*
Speaker: "Thank you for being so understanding. My bodyguards mean well, but they can be a bit… overly zealous in their care from time to time. Especially after what happened with my father…"
Listener: *explains*
Speaker: "Oh that is so nice of you to say. Your condolences are really appreciated. His sudden passing came as a surprise to us all, and now I find myself having to fill his shoes. But so many of the city's other families have already sent their condolences as well. It truly warms my heart to see how well respected he was in this business."
Listener: *explains*
Speaker: "You brought something more?... Oh that is a beautiful flower arrangement! I will make sure to lay this on my father's grave the next time I visit. You said your family head picked it out herself? How is your mother by the way? I only remember seeing her once at that big negotiation a few years ago."
Listener: *answers*
Speaker: “That is so good to hear. It can’t be easy, managing the second largest family in town. I still don’t know how my father could lead one that is even bigger. Please give your mother my regards when you return.”
Listener: *agrees*
Speaker: “Now, this can’t have been the only reason for your visit, am I right? Why don’t you go ahead and tell me what else you have brought for me?”
Listener: *answers*
Speaker: “Just your condolences? Forgive me for doubting that. The other families all took the opportunity to propose some kind of deal as well. So why would you be any different? The only reason that your family took so long to send their regards is because you were still busy trying to figure out how best to use my father’s death.”
Listener: *denies*
(Part 2: Tone shifts, true nature is revealed)
Speaker: “Cut the shit! I am well aware that your mother sent you to… what? Seduce me? Or just manipulate me into doing your bidding?... Why are you acting so surprised? You are not the only child who grew up in this cutthroat world. I can see right through your every move, just as I can see through everyone else’s.”
Listener: *confused*
Speaker: *laughs* “The useless child? Yes, that is certainly the image I built for myself over the years. Did you know that I even introduced that specific nickname? All it took were the right rumors at the right time and place, whispered into the right ears.
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “Why? It is much better to be feared for your position and underestimated for your abilities than the other way around. Especially in this business. I prefer only the ones who work directly with me to know about my true nature. Everybody else can keep thinking of me as the naive, spoiled, oldest son of the city’s most influential family. It keeps them from crossing me without thinking, but makes them careless enough to make mistakes.”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: *laughs* “Your face speaks volumes, even if you do not want it to! ‘Why? Why did I not reveal my intentions sooner to you?’ That’s what you’re asking yourself, isn’t it? To be honest, I was going to humor your attempts at fulfilling your mother’s oh so secret mission, but it was just so pathetic to watch that I couldn’t bear it anymore. The awkward ways you snuck seductive glances at me, played with your hair, and even tried to establish skin contact were all so obvious. You really only have a pretty face, but none of the skills to use it properly.”
Listener: *angry*
Speaker: *laugh* “Are those tears I see in your eyes? Oh don’t try to appeal to my sympathy now. I can see those tears for what they are. Not tears of sadness or fear, but tears of anger and frustration. That pouting face of yours may just be more effective at rousing my interest than anything you tried before. But trust me, you don’t want me to do the things it makes me want to do to you.”
Listener: *pouts*
Speaker: “Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, would you please just show me whatever business proposal you have in that bag of yours? I bet you even brought a pretty looking folder with fancy looking graphs and tables and everything... I’m right, aren’t I?” *laughs* “This is just precious!”
Listener: *gives proposal*
Speaker: “That’s more like it. Let me take a look at it… Colorful design, check. Graphs, check. Tables, check. Extremely disadvantageous terms for my family, check.” *laughs* “It’s refreshing to see how stupid you really think I am! Your people must have worked so long and hard at this proposal, trying to squeeze as much use out of me as you possibly could… Well, as you might have gathered from my reaction, your proposal is rejected. But since you went to the trouble of getting me such a nice folder, I have a similar one for you. Please, take a nice long look at it.”
Listener: *looks through the folder*
Speaker: *occasional chuckle*
(Part 3: Blackmail)
Speaker: “That’s right, those are all pictures of your family’s operations. Not all of them, but definitely enough to earn every single of your members a nice long stay in the crowbar hotel. In the right hands, this folder could implode your entire organization within a single night. It doesn’t stop at just the pictures by the way, there’s everyone’s home addresses, all your hideouts and warehouses, and so much more evidence. And this here is the coup de grâce, la pièce de résistance!”
Listener: *surprised*
Speaker: *laughs* “So you DO recognize it! Yes, that is indeed your family’s ledger, the one that supposedly was burnt to ashes a few weeks ago! Only… that it wasn’t, but that much should be obvious by now, even to you.”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “How? Well, I happened to come into contact with a certain someone within your family who had enough reason to be close enough to the ledger to be able to facilitate an accident… Scary, isn’t it? Really makes you wonder who else of your most trusted members is on my payroll!”
(Part 4: Demands for submission and marriage)
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “What’s going to happen now? I’ll tell you what. First, you are going to take this folder back to your mother. She will think about it for a night or two, just to give herself the illusion of having some control over the situation. Then she will follow the demands I have written down in this envelope anyway, because she does not actually have a choice and she will know that as well as I do.”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “You look curious again. Fine, I guess it wouldn’t hurt to tell you, seeing how the demands… involve you. There are basically two demands. The first one is that she is to step down from her position as family head and yield the position to you. I don’t care which kind of explanation or excuse she gives others, as long as it is believable. The second demand is that she personally marries you to me.”
Listener: *shocked*
Speaker: “You look so surprised! Surprised and a bit frightened now that I take a closer look. Like a helpless little mouse cowering in front of a snake. Say, do you mind if I call you that from now on? Little Mouse?”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “Why am I doing all that? Have you never heard of a political marriage before, little mouse? Though I guess this one is a tad bit unconventional. The leader of the second largest criminal organization being led to the altar by the previous leader, and being married into another family. Oh, the confusion and humiliation that every single one of your underlings must feel at that! Simply exhilarating! And it will completely shake up this game board that I so carefully prepared.”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “Yes, prepared. Do you still think my sudden rise to power was a coincidence, little mouse? No no, I’ve been spinning my web for years now, moving all the game pieces into the right places and waiting for the opportunity to strike.”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “Did I kill my father? I’m going to leave that answer up to your imagination, little mouse. He was weak, and never knew how to rise to true greatness, despite everything at his disposal. I will make much better use of his resources than he ever could. Under my rule, the families will finally be united and form an actual front against law and order. This city will be ours!”
Listener: *defiant*
Speaker: “Oh no, the other families won’t do anything. At least not until it is too late. I don’t mind telling you a little secret that no one else knows. I have dirt on every single one of them. They all just believe that they are the only one, that I came across it by accident. So they will sit back and wait until one of the others takes the first shot at me, so they don’t have to suffer my retaliation.”
Listener: *confused*
Speaker: “Why am I telling you all this? Simple, because you won’t be able to do anything about it. You will walk out of here freely, but you will be painfully aware of the invisible chains and threads that bind you to me. But don’t worry, I take good care of my things. As long as you don’t act up and behave well enough, you will want for nothing, little mouse. Now that I finally obtained you, I am not going to let you go, ever!”
Listener: *question*
Speaker: “See who finally used her pretty little head for some thinking! If you can pick up on things like that, you may have more use than I initially thought. Yes, I did say finally. I had my eyes on you for years, ever since we met at that big negotiation. You were the only one close to me in age and status, so I naturally paid attention to you. There’s just something poetic about the younger generation overthrowing their parents and leading the way into a brighter future, isn’t it? So I spent the last years, plotting, planning, scheming, or whatever else you might want to call it, trying to find the best way to obtain you and achieve our… my goal. I spied, I threatened, I blackmailed, and I… hurt people, all in order to move all pieces into the exact positions they are in now.”
Listener: *stunned*
Speaker: “You might act frightened and shocked right now, but I can see in your eyes that you are beginning to warm up to the idea, little mouse. Now, I don’t know if that is because you simply gave up on resisting me, or if you genuinely find the idea of ruling by my side intriguing, and it honestly does not matter to me as long as the end result stays the same. So why don’t you take a bit of time for yourself and use that pretty little head of yours to figure that part out first? After you take this folder and my demands back to your mother, of course.”
(Part 5: Tone shifts back to the beginning)
Speaker: “If there is nothing else, please let me escort you to your car.”
Listener: *declines*
Speaker: “No please, I insist! It really is no trouble at all. I know that you can find your way back by yourself, but I would be a terrible host if I just sent you on your way from here… And I don’t want to reveal that side to my people just yet.
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