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2023.06.10 12:08 pleya1337 My [M26] girlfriend [F22] went to sleep in a hotel out of town without telling me

i am completely broken and at loss of words
yesterday june 9th everything was fine. we had no arguments, no fights. nothing was wrong. we went out 2 days ago and i paid for the dinner (which wasnt cheap at all). she was very feminine and everything was perfectly normal
she kept sending me cute animals on instagram through the whole day on june 9th and texting me. everything completely fine no red flags there. i didn't doubt a thing
near midnight i texted her. she wasn't replying and wasn't online for an hour
i video called her on whatsapp to hear her before i go to bed. she wasn't answering. the phone hang up. as soon as it hang up she texted me then. so i called her again
this time she answered the phone and said she was "sleeping". on the video call it was all pitch black. darkness in the room. she does NEVER, EVER sleep alone in complete dark -- she ALWAYS turns lights on during the whole night when she sleeps -- first red flag for me.
i told her to turn on the lights. she then started attacking me "ughhh let me sleeepppp i was sleeping". i repeat turn on the lights. she hands up my call.
i call her again. she answers for a few more seconds and hangs up the video call.
i call her, she hangs up -- this has been repeated for at least 10 times.
after 10+th time, cold blood was going through my veins and bones. i started shaking. i was in disbelief. i told her to get out of bed and turn on the lights. after 15 minutes of not wanting to turn on the lights, all of a sudden she has no problem to get up and turn on the lights to which she recorded me the bathroom (empty), herself in the mirror (she was naked at the bottom, no underwear, only wearing the top, she NEVER sleeps naked, she always wears pyjamas or underwear, she only sleeps naked when she sleeps with me). she records her room -- and thats when i realized, she's in a hotel outside of our city, sleeping in that hotel -- but i saw NO ONE in the room -- she kept claiming she's alone in the room.
because i just wanted to see her for 1 minute before i go to bed, this was unexpectedly so shocking to me i almost felt like i had a cardiac arrest. i was completely unprepared to take this hit mentally.
get this: she went to the other city at 11 AM in the morning, and she claims she was inside of the hotel room FOR THE WHOLE DAY TILL MIDNIGHT, wasn't going out or anything -- whole day in hotel outside of the city, alone, studying for her exam.
no. i'm not making this up. i am quoting her.
she also then proceeded to explain she went to this hotel because she's learning the Phi Brows course, that holds a seminar training session on june 10th. she showed me the messages of the woman who organizes this how they chatted together.
1) why couldn't she tell me "hey boyfriend im going in the other city and will sleep over in a hotel because im having a training session for Phi Brows"
2) why couldn't she ask me "hey boyfriend i'm having a training session for Phi Brows on june 10th, do you wanna come with me and sleep together in a hotel?"
no. she chose to be quiet about it and do it behind my back. she didn't want me to come because she didnt invite me.
can you imagine what she did for the whole day in a hotel, "alone"? would you stay inside of a hotel from 11 AM till 11 PM without going outside, "alone", studying for exams and browsing tiktok? if you're a man, and this happened to you, what would you do in my position? if you're a woman, put yourself in my perspective, and tell me how would you feel?
we were together since mid 2020 when covid19 pandemic started. 3 years down the drain. 3 years of my life that could have been spent building the right person, gone
what am i supposed to feel right now? i am broken
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2023.06.10 12:07 Dazzling_Antelope_88 About Kendall's Name

Let me start this by saying I'm talking exclusively about the in-universe logic behind this and not what the writers may or may not have alluded to by naming each character the way they did. This means that any parallels between, for example, Shiv and the word "shiv" or Roman and Romulus, founder of Rome, are irrelevant here.
Kendall's name has been bothering me for a while because I don't really get it. Siobhan and Romulus are names I would totally expect from a family as wealthy and megalomaniac as the Roys to name their children; both names have an archaic, aristocratic sound to them. Considering Caroline being British old money and Logan already being incredibly powerful by the time Shiv and Roman were born, it makes total sense to me that they would choose such names for them.
On contrast, Connor is a pretty average name. When he was born, though, Logan was presumably still not nearly as rich as he came to be, and maybe a bit more down-to-earth. Also, from what we've been able to gather about Connor's mother, she was a pretty simple person, definitely not resembling Caroline's narcissism and megalomania at all. The name Connor makes sense to me as well.
Kendall, I feel, makes no sense. He shares the same mother as Shiv and Roman and was born much closer to them than to Connor, so you would expect him to have a name as irregular and out-of-touch as his younger siblings. However, Kendall is a pretty normal name. His middle name, Logan, makes total sense considering Logan seems to always have thought that Connor "didn't count" and most likely wanted his "real" first born to bear his name. Kendall's first name, though, is totally opposite to what I'd expect based on the way the other children were named.
Maybe I'm just missing the show and overanalysing details that don't matter, but this one in specific has always struck me as very odd. Can anyone of you explain it?
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2023.06.10 12:07 Zestyclose-Zombie-10 Husband wants his friend and friend’s wife to live with us

I can’t believe I’m even typing this, but my husband wants his friend from Pakistan and his new wife to stay with us in the UK until they find a place.
I don’t know this man, I don’t know his wife. My husband doesn’t know his wife. She’s his non mahram and his friend is my non mahram. I’m pregnant. My husband works away from home 2 days a week. The fact that he even thought to suggest this to me makes my blood boil and I’m wondering what kind of person I married. Him even thinking about this means he’s not bothered that I will have to be around a man I don’t know and I will have to be covered all the time. Our house isn’t even big. We would share a bathroom. Not to mention this friend of his has turned against him in business a few times. I got angry and he said in Pakistan it is normal for guests to stay with other people for a while. This is not Pakistan. UK houses are nowhere near as private and spacious as Pakistan houses. Not to mention I will be giving birth soon after they arrive. Why would my husband want a random man who is not even a relative around my child?
I’m genuinely considering leaving and staying with my parents as I can’t believe this thought even crossed his mind.
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2023.06.10 12:06 MooMOOmoo- My newly adopted son keeps crying and running away from us

So I adopted my nephew (18 months) although technically he’s not my nephew, as it turns out he’s not any biological relation to me his mom and my brother are divorcing and he has a sibling on the way but I’m not interested in adopting them as I doubt they will be seized by the state. there is a longer version of LO’s story on my profile but he was abused not physically violent but verbally and emotionally, he was also forced to watch his mom and actual dad (his dad is not my brother it’s some other guy) have sex from a young age, because his mom couldn’t be bothered to move him
I did foster him while everything was getting sorted out but he had to go back into state care for 12 days while I went on my honeymoon as it was too late to cancel and we couldn’t find anyone to take him, he is now fully mine, we thought he’d have some problems after we left and then came back but nope he was unaffected it’s been over a week since we’ve been back and he’s been fine, we finally finished his room and it’s filled with toys and mats, books posters anything he was excited about we also got he now has a toddler bed instead of a cot with a plank with a weight on it to stop him standing or getting out like he had at his mothers, we had no problems with that transition, a few minor problems trying to get him to stay in his room but we got a door monkey and he’s fine and now does quite time if he’s up before me and my wife are
We got him his first stuffed animal it’s a big ish ginger cow like one of the ones I have on my farm we told him he could sleep with it and play with it or take it anywhere and he got so excited we could hear him in the monitor babbling away to it at night, he never had any comfort items at his moms she didn’t believe in toys or pacifiers, he jumped and laughed with joy he took it everywhere to my farm to daycare car rides you name it he took it
Our major problem is a few days ago he started crying and running away anytime we came near him he’s instead hold his stuffy and run away and hide or curl up in a corner, if we approached he screams and cries if we touched him he’d kick or bite, he won’t take his bottle from us and he’s refusing most solids, in order to feed him we have to set the bottle or plate on the living room table then leave the room after about 5 mins he will start to feed himself if it’s solid food it’s really messy if it’s a bottle he grabs it and runs and hides he will cry a little,
We have tried hugging him signing to him talking it out with him, but he still runs and hides, it’s so difficult to change him we have to actually grab him and hold him down he will cry and scream and hold his stuffy even tighter, he can’t be separated from it, he’s also started crying in his bed but we can’t go near him otherwise it makes it worse so I just sleep in his doorway with the door open so he can see me, His stuffie fell out of the bed one night and I awoke go to most bloodcurdling scream he was shoving himself into the corner of his bed tears streaming down his face banging his head against the wall, I picked the stuffie up of the ground handed it to him and left the room, he immediately calmed into a wimped and sniffle before falling asleep curled up in a ball
He’s a different person than the one I used to know I thought maybe all the new stuff was overwhelming but he uses it all and he enjoys it all I tried taking a few things away (I didn’t try taking the stuffie just the big puzzle or the water drawing Matt) and he freaked so I put them back, ever since i gave him the stuffie he’s been like this, he’s in play therapy but his next session isn’t until Wednesday, he’s been able to mime out using toys a lot of stuff including his mom having sex, I thought he wouldn’t remember a lot of this stuff as he was an infant for most of it but he does
He’s been temporarily barred from daycare as he now avoids the other kids and cries if any of them try to come near him or interact and refused to be fed by the attendant, a girl came up to him and took his stuffie because she’s 17 months and dosent know better yet and he charged her and hit her and jumped on her then bit her all while screaming before the attendant was able to pull him off the attendant took the stuffie and he freaked out again so she gave it back and he ran and hid under a table and calmed down by himself, the poor girl has a black eye and a bruised forehead with a big ish bite just above her wrist
When he was with his mom he would be put in another room if he cried for food outside of scheduled feeding time at 1wk, if he was napping he would be woken up if it wasn’t a scheduled nap, he had a plank of wood weighted down over his crib to stop him standing, if he made noises he was told to be quiet, if he crawled away from them he would be brought back and force fully held, if he crawled and they didn’t want to watch him he would be strapped into a car seat to stop him, when he was trying to walk he would be shoved to the ground, if he held his arms out to be held when they didn’t want to hold him (which was fairly often unfortunately) he would be told no and they would shove his arms away, they yelled at him because his first word wasn’t what they wanted it to be, he wasn’t allowed toys or pacifiers at his house, his clothes where not stereotypical baby clothes and if he took them off as he grew older he would be yelled at and strapped into his high chair as a punishment
I’m seriously overwhelmed and I feel like I failed him already maybe it would have been better if I let the state find someone else to adopt him, maybe being with me is just to familiar to the abuse since I was a face he seen regularly aftebefore he had been abused in secret. He used to be so happy to see me when I babysat him for 5 days a week most weeks in the first year of his life, I was his first word, when we brought him home for his first night at ours he hugged me we played for hours together I read him a story to go to bed we read together most nights even now when he won’t let me near him I still read to him. All the happyness and joy is gone from him i don’t know where to start
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2023.06.10 12:05 coffeenpistolsfor2 To all the soon-to-be moms who are planning their babymoon trips…

Hi, everyone! I’m now 22w4d,FTM and I just got back from my 9-day babymoon trip in Tokyo so I’d like to share some of my experiences and tips if you’re planning for your own babymoon trip! I’m sorry in advance if this post is too long!
  1. The flight. I live in Asia so the flight from where I live to Tokyo is around 6 hours which is not very long but I did posted a question here regarding the flight, most of you recommend upgrading to BC if possible since it would be more comfortable — and I’m SO glad I did upgrade! I’d say it’s the best decision I’ve made this entire trip! If you have a limited budget, I’d suggest you spend it on closer location, not requiring flying, and a better hotel to stay in. This is actually my first time flying BC with my husband and we truly enjoyed it. I did experience some rib pain which requires me to lie down and I can do that with BC. Also it’s easier to use the toilet as often as you’d like. If you tell the crew about your pregnancy, they tend to give you extra attention like refilling your drinking water frequently which is very convenient!
  2. The hotel. We decided to stay at 3 different hotels but all in Tokyo, all different budgets. From some small 3-star hotel to Park Hyatt Tokyo. I truly recommend you to CHOOSE A BIGGER ROOM. You’ll never know how you’re gonna feel on each day and if you feel like staying in because you got tired from yesterday, a good hotel room really matters. So if possible, spend a bit more on the hotel as well but if you can’t, go somewhere near, book a fancy Airbnb for a few nights would also do the work! I spent a few nights in this extremely small hotel room in Tokyo and I almost cry myself to sleep! I’m not usually picky on this kind of thing but sharing a small bed with my husband while I also feel extra big is horrible—there’s also no bathtub for me to relax in after a long walk. So be extra careful when booking a hotel, no matter how you used to do it in the past, your body needs different things now.
  3. The walking. I consider myself pretty active during my pregnancy. I do pregnancy-friendly workouts 5-6 days a week, including a 3-5k run and I think I can do city walk in Tokyo easily. Turns out, I can’t. I got exhausted so easily I surprised myself. Also I’ve gained some weight so my feet hurt and numb. I had to buy a new pair of walking shoes but they didn’t help much since I walked so much in the first few days and clearly my body needs a fully rest day which I didn’t get. I recommend you to plan your trip ahead, just 1-2 agenda per day is enough and if you still feel fine you can do something extra. I also get used to walking up and down the stairs but please use elevators whenever you can. Sit in a priority seat on the train whenever you can. You’ll thank me later.
  4. The emotion. This part surprises me the most. My husband and I travel together allllll the time. We do big long haul trip 2-3 times a year and other short vacations here and there. We’ve experienced some bickering but nothing huge so we’re pretty confident we’re gonna have just fun on this trip. But nope, I got so emotional so easily about the tiniest things. I felt aggressive and annoyed by everything all the time which makes this trip so hard for both of us. There were good days, of course, but also prepare for the extra emotional days that are out of control. I did try to communicate my feelings beforehand to my husband so he understands what I’m going through but I also know that it’s hard for him to manage the situation (and don’t get triggered by my bad mood) so make yourself and your partner ready for those moments and find a safe, caring, and kind way that works for both of you if it occurs.
To sum up, it’s not as easy as I thought it’d be but it’s totally worth it! I’m glad we did this trip together and I got to experience traveling while pregnant like I’ve been wanting to. So if you’re planning your own babymoon trip, go for it and have fun!
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2023.06.10 12:04 CompetitiveAd8436 How to ignore my narcissistic mother?

I wrote a post on AITA and many recommended that i come here and gather support here.
After reading comments it’s kinda hard to accept that most of the things i go through are abuse but at the same time, it makes more sense.
My mother always says that i owe her money for the rest of my life as she spent thousands raising me, i will always happily give her any money she needs, but she only says it to me… not my other siblings and if i can’t give her the money she wants, we end up arguing and i’m basically shunned until she wants something again. i’m 20 now but it’s been like this ever since i started to earn money at 16, and it’s getting tiring feeling rejected and like the bad guy all the time..
I’m in a relationship with my bf (22) and we’ve been together approaching two years now and it’s a really happy and healthy relationship, he’s my only support system close by as my friends live a bit further, there are times my mother uses him to insult me or even him, he has met her as well which also makes me want to keep them apart as she cannot respect him.
She also uses me as a therapist most times, yet i never get that support from her, i’ve referred myself back to therapy again, and i’ve been recommended low intensity cbt, when i revealed this to her, she almost made it seem i’m weak as well as this in the past she’s used me going to therapy as an insult to say i have a victim mentality when, i don’t shout about how anyone has hurt me, if anything no one knows truly how i’m feeling
i don’t have a lot of money, from giving her so much and she doesn’t believe me and is forcing me to show her my bank statements, i haven’t shown her bc i feel like that’s too much and again she’s only ever asked me rather than any other of my siblings
i feel like i’m going crazy because i don’t feel like i’m a bad person but being told i’m a bad person, that my tears are manipulation, that i’m selfish and have a victim mentality on a near daily basis, you can’t help but feel this way
i want to be at peace, i want a clearer mind, i want to stop walking in eggshells all the time and i know that can mean going no contact for a little bit, i don’t have any family other than my mother and siblings so if i do this i’m truly alone, should i stay or leave?
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2023.06.10 12:04 ataurindo Why didn't Yhwach do the "Full Invasion" the first time around?

Now I might just have some info missing in my memory but to me it makes no sense.
The full invasion would have arguably been a lot more effevtive than the first invasion, not just as a surprise attack but the Wandenreich replacing the Seireitei would have left the Shinigami extra confused. Another benefit: no time limit and thus no time hypnotizing by Aizen will destroy their plans.
Add to that, that Yhwach is still very much capable of fighting and defeating Yama. The other captains would lose their Bankai and die before Kisuke develops a method of getting them back. Treatment of the wounded near death would become basically impossible since the Shinigami are in unknown territory.
More captains die, more foot soldiers die, Ichigo is captured by the Wandenreich and reeducated, I see no disadvantages.
And arguing that Yhwach wasn't powerful enough to do a full invasion at the beginning of TYBW makes little sense to me either. There is only a short time-span between both invasions and at the start of neither had the "9 years of power" come to an end.
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2023.06.10 12:04 midcancerrampage Dad, should I give a guy I'm breaking up with my safe money?

One of the things my mom told me when I moved in with my boyfriend (I had to, to live near my job in the city) was that I should always have a secret bank account of "safe money" that he doesn't know about, in case of emergencies, and so I always have an exit if I need it.
I did that. My boyfriend and I were always poor and living paycheck to paycheck, but I squirrelled away a bit of my income every month and now I have about $12k of safe money. I originally only planned to maintain about $6-8k or so, but I think in the back of my mind, I knew I would need it so I kept putting more money in.
Because dad, my boyfriend hasn't been the best guy ever. He's become an alcoholic, cheated on me, treated me like a maid, would rather play video games than talk to me, makes mean jokes about my insecurities, and other annoying things I won't go into detail about. Safe to say I think I always knew I would eventually snap and leave him. But my love for him, inertia, those times when he was good to me and looked after me and supported me emotionally, those things made me want to ignore the bad times and just stay. It wasn't always bad. Sometimes he'd be an angel to me, and he protects me from my abusive dad. I do love him.
But now we've reached the end. I saw him swiping Tinder on his phone again, and we argued, and I broke. I told him it was over and I didn't want to spend the rest of my life like this. We have no future, no happy ending. And then he broke down.
He told me he was distracting himself from the fact that he owed a bank nearly $10k in credit card debt, and they were pushing him to either pay back the full amount now or file bankruptcy, which in our country means his credit is screwed for life and he can never get finance again. They apparently refused to accept monthly payments, they want the whole sum. (I don't really know how it works, just going off what he tells me.)
This was the first I'm hearing about it. He never told me about this debt before, he doesn't like to talk money. He's in tears saying if I leave and stop paying my half of the bills, he'll be homeless, bankrupt and destitute.
So TLDR; He needs $10k. I have $12k that he doesn't know about. I'm definitely leaving this relationship, but I don't know if my conscience can take leaving him in ruins.
Dad, should I give him $10k to bail him out of this hole and try to make it on my own with $2k? I probably can survive if I move back in with my parents. Or should I keep my mouth shut and just leave and look after myself? I don't feel like he deserves my safe money for how he's treated me all these years, but I also feel like the guilt of knowing his life is totally ruined will be crushing for me. 😣
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2023.06.10 12:02 Doctor_of_Puns Madame Blavatsky on "The Himalayan Brothers"

SIR—"On the authority of an adept” (?) “they” (the Theosophists and Madame Blavatsky) “are all mediums under the influence of the lower spirits” Such is the sentence used by you in an editorial review of Mr. Sinnett’s Occult World (Spiritualist, June 17th). Doubtful as its pertinency might appear, I personally found nothing very objectionable in it, the more so, as elsewhere you do me the honour to express your conviction that (whether controlled by good or bad spirits) I yet am a “strong physical medium”—that term precluding at least the suspicion of my being a regular impostor. This letter then is not directed against you, but rather against the pretensions of a would-be “adept.” Another point should be also attended to before I proceed, in order that the situation may be as clearly defined as possible.
Finding myself for the period of nearly seven years one of the best abused individuals under the sun, I rather got accustomed to that sort of thing. Hence, I would hardly take up the pen now to defend my own character. If people, besides forgetting that I am a woman, and an old woman, are dull enough to fail to perceive that had I declared myself anything in creation, save a Theosophist and one of the founders of our Society, I would have been in every respect—materially as well as socially—better off in the world’s consideration, and that therefore, since, notwithstanding all the persecution and opposition encountered, I persist in remaining and declaring myself one, I cannot well be that charlatan and pretender some people would see in me—I really cannot help it. Fools are unable, and the wise unwilling to see the absurdity of such an accusation, for as Shakespeare puts it:
Folly in fools bears not so strong a note As foolery in the wise, when wit doth dote.
It is not then to defend myself that I claim space in your columns, but to answer one whose ex-cathedra utterances have revolted the sense of justice of more than one of our Theosophists in India, and to defend them—who have a claim on all the reverential feeling that my nature is capable of.
A new correspondent, one of those dangerous, quasi-anonymous individuals who abuse their literary privilege of hiding their true personality and thus shirk responsibility behind an initial or two, has lately won a prominent place in the columns of your journal. He calls himself an “adept”; that is easy enough, but does or rather can he prove it? To begin with, in the sight of the Spiritualists as much as in that of sceptics in general, an “adept,” whether he hails from Tibet, India, or London, is all one. The latter will persist in calling him an impostor; and the former, were he even to prove his powers, in seeing in him either a medium or a juggler. Now your “J.K.” when he states in the Spiritualist of June 24th, that “the phenomena attendant upon real adeptship are on an entirely different plane from “Spiritualism” risks, nay is sure, to have every one of the above expletives flung in his face by both the above-mentioned classes.
Could he but prove what he claims, namely, the powers conferring upon a person the title of an initiate, such epithets might well be scorned by him. Aye,—but I ask again, is he ready to make good his claim? The language used by him, to begin with, is not that which a true adept would ever use. It is dogmatic and authoritative throughout, and too full of insulting aspersions against those who are not yet proved to be worse or lower than himself; and fails entirely to carry conviction to the minds of the profane as of those who do know something of adepts and initiates—that it is one of such proficients who now addresses them. Styling himself an adept, whose “Hierophant is a western gentleman,” but a few lines further on he confesses his utter ignorance of the existence of a body which cannot possibly be ignored by any true adept! I say “cannot” for there is no accepted neophyte on the whole globe but at least knows of the Himalayan Fraternity. The sanction to receive the last and supreme initiation, the real “word at low breath” can come but through those fraternities in Egypt, India, and Thibet to one of which belongs “Koot Hoomi Lal Singh.” True, there is “adept” and adept, and they differ, as there are adepts in more than one art and science. I, for one, know in America of a shoemaker, who advertised himself as “an adept in the high art of manufacturing Parisian cothurns.” J.K. speaks of Brothers “on the soul plane,” of “divine Kabbalah culminating in God,” of “slave magic,” and so on, a phraseology which proves to me most conclusively that he is but one of those dabblers in western occultism which were so well represented some years ago, by French-born “Egyptians” and “Algerians,” who told people their fortunes by the Tarot, and placed their visitors within enchanted circles with a Tetragrammaton inscribed in the centre. I do not say J.K. is one of the latter, I beg him to understand. Though quite unknown to me and hiding behind his two initials, I will not follow his rude example and insult him for all that. But I say and repeat that his language sadly betrays him. If a Kabbalist at all, then himself and his “Hierophant” are but the humble self-taught pupils of the mediaeval, and so-called “Christian” Kabbalists; of adepts, who, like Agrippa, Khunrath, Paracelsus, Vaughan, Robert Fludd, and several others, revealed their knowledge to the world but to better conceal it, and who never gave the key to it in their writings. He bombastically asserts his own knowledge and power, and proceeds to pass judgment on people of whom he knows and can know nothing. Of the “Brothers” he says: “If they are true adepts, they have not shown much worldly wisdom, and the organization which is to inculcate their doctrine is a complete failure, for even the very first psychical and physical principles of true Theosophy and occult science are quite unknown to and unpractised by the members of that organization—the Theosophical Society.”
How does he know? Did the Theosophists take him into their confidence? And if he knows something of the British Theosophical Society, what can he know of those in India? If he belongs to any of them, then does he play false to the whole body and is a traitor. And if he does not, what has he to say of its practitioners, since the Society in general, and especially its esoteric sections that count but a very few “chosen ones”—are secret bodies?
The more attentively I read his article the more am I inclined to laugh at the dogmatic tone prevailing in it. Were I a Spiritualist, I would be inclined to suspect in it a good “goak” of John King, whose initials are represented in the signature of J.K. Let him first learn, that mirific Brother of the “Western Hermetic Circle in the soul-plane,” a few facts about the adepts in general, before he renders himself any more ridiculous.
(1) No true adept will on any consideration whatever reveal himself as one, to the profane. Nor would he ever speak in such terms of contempt of people, who are certainly no more silly, and, in many an instance, far wiser than himself. But were even the Theosophists the poor misled creatures he would represent them to be, a true adept would rather help than deride them.
(2) There never was a true Initiate but knew of the secret Fraternities in the East. It is not Eliphas Levi who would ever deny their existence, since we have his authentic signature to the contrary. Even Ρ. B. Randolph, that wondrous, though erratic, genius of America, that half-initiated seer, who got his knowledge in the East, had good reasons to know of their actual existence, as his writings can prove.
(3) One who ever perorates upon his occult knowledge, and speaks of practising his powers in the name of some particular prophet, deity, or Avatar, is but a sectarian mystic at best. He cannot be an adept in the Eastern sense—a Mahatma, for his judgment will always be biased and prejudiced by the colouring of his own special and dogmatic religion.
(4) The great science, called by the vulgar “magic,” and by its Eastern proficients Gupta Vidya, embracing as it does each and every science, since it is the acme of knowledge, and constitutes the perfection of philosophy, is universal: hence—as very truly remarked—cannot be confined to one particular nation or geographical locality. But, as Truth is one, the method for the attainment of its highest proficiency must necessarily be also one. It cannot be subdivided, for, once reduced to parts, each of them, left to itself, will, like rays of light, diverge from, instead of converging to, its centre, the ultimate goal of knowledge; and these parts can rebecome the Whole only by collecting them together again, or each fraction will remain but a fraction.
This truism, which may be termed elementary mathematics for little boys, has to be re-called, in order to refresh the memory of such “adepts” as are too apt to forget that “Christian Kabbalism” is but a fraction of Universal Occult Science. And, if they believe that they have nothing more to learn, then the less they turn to “Eastern Adepts” for information the better and the less trouble for both. There is but one royal road to “Divine Magic”; neglect and abandon it to devote yourself specially to one of the paths diverging from it, and like a lonely wanderer you will find yourself lost in an inextricable labyrinth. Magic, I suppose, existed millenniums before the Christian era; and, if so, are we to think then, with our too learned friends, the modern “Western Kabbalists,” that it was all Black Magic, practised by the “Old firm of Devil & Co.”? But together with every other person who knows something of what he or she talks about, I say that it is nothing of the kind; that J.K. seems to be superbly ignorant even of the enormous difference which exists between a Kabbalist and an Occultist. Is he aware, or not, that the Kabbalist stands, in relation to the Occultist, as a little detached hill at the foot of the Himalayas, to Mount Everest? That what is known as the Jewish Kabbala of Simon Ben Jochai, is already the disfigured version of its primitive source, the Great Chaldean Book of Numbers? That as the former, with its adaptation to the Jewish Dispensation, its mixed international Angelology and Demonology, its Orphiels and Raphaels and Greek Tetragrams, is a pale copy of the Chaldean, so the Kabbala of the Christian Alchemists and Rosicrucians is naught in its turn but a tortured edition of the Jewish. By centralizing the Occult Power and his course of actions, in some one national God or Avatar, whether in Jehovah or Christ, Brahma or Mahomet, the Kabbalist diverges the more from the one central Truth.
It is but the Occultist, the Eastern adept, who stands a Free Man, omnipotent through its own Divine Spirit as much as man can be on earth. He has rid himself of all human conceptions and religious side-issues; he is at one and the same time a Chaldean Sage, a Persian Magi, a Greek Theurgist, an Egyptian Hermetist, a Buddhist Rahat and an Indian Yogi. He has collected into one bundle all the separate fractions of Truth widely scattered over the nations, and holds in his hand the One Truth, a torch of light which no adverse wind can bend, blow out or even cause to waver. Not he the Prometheus who robs but a portion of the Sacred Fire, and therefore finds himself chained to Mount Caucasus for his intestines to be devoured by vultures, for he has secured God within himself and depends no more on the whim and caprice of either good or evil deities.
True, “Koot Hoomi” mentions Buddha. But it is not because the brothers hold him in the light of God or even of “a God,” but simply because he is the Patron of the Thibetan Occultists, the greatest of the Illuminati and adepts, self-initiated by his own Divine Spirit or “God-self” unto all the mysteries of the invisible universe. Therefore to speak of imitating “the life of Christ,” or that of Buddha, or Zoroaster, or any other man on earth chosen and accepted by any one special nation for its God and leader, is to show oneself a Sectarian even in Kabbalism, that fraction of the one “Universal Science”—Occultism. The latter is pre-historic and is coeval with intelligence. The Sun shines for the heathen Asiatic as well as for the Christian European and for the former still more gloriously, I am glad to say.
To conclude, it is enough to glance at that sentence of more than questionable propriety, and more fit to emanate from the pen of a Jesuit than that of a Kabbalist, which allows of the supposition that the “Brothers” are only a branch of the old established firm of “Devil and Co.” to feel convinced that beyond some “Abracadabra” dug out from an old mouldy MS. of Christian Kabbalism, J.K. knows nothing. It is but on the unsophisticated profane, or a very innocent Spiritualist, that his bombastic sentences, all savouring of the Anche is son pittore, that he may produce some sensation.
True, there is no need of going absolutely to Thibet or India to find some knowledge and power “which are latent in every human soul”; but the acquisition of the highest knowledge and power require not only many years of the severest study enlightened by a superior intelligence and an audacity bent by no peril; but also as many years of retreat in comparative solitude, and association with but students pursuing the same object, in a locality where nature itself preserves like the neophyte an absolute and unbroken stillness if not silence! where the air is free for hundreds of miles around of all mephytic influence; the atmosphere and human magnetism absolutely pure, and—no animal blood is spilt. Is it in London or even the most country-hidden village of England that such conditions can be found?
Bombay, July 20th.
Spiritualist (London), August 12, 1881
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2023.06.10 12:02 Zagors2020 What's wrong with Idaho?

In 2007, the statue of Anne Frank in Boise, the capital of Idaho, was torn down, and before that it was plastered with discriminatory stickers.

In 2020, the statue was once again the target of stickers.

In 2021, the tunnel near the memorial park is covered with offensive graffiti.

My black friend told me an anecdote from the 1980s, when she went camping with the Boy Scouts in Idaho, that her mother was shocked when she saw, you know, tattoos on the other parents. She and her mother were the only people of color in the group so they were asked to leave the gathering. I stopped for a moment and I can't believe that so many parents in a small place can represent such ideologies, even tattoo them on their bodies.

Many have probably heard of Richard Girnt Butler, the founder of the anti-constitutional organization that was shut down in 2001 and had been active since the 1970s. In 2012, a similar idea was started again, but it did not take root in the full sense, although even today there are still some similar organizations and aspirations for the return of what was abolished with great difficulty.

I have a feeling something is wrong with Idaho. Can you share your or other people's experiences? Is it really that bad? The country is beautiful, ideal for a vacation, but things like this worry me.
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2023.06.10 12:01 poolpOrg Just received, first impressions.

I have just received my Rokid Max and my first impressions are mixed.
First of, I wasn't expecting more than a screen pegged to my face, which is what I got, so no disappointment on that front, it does exactly what I expected.
Then, the image is sharp, I was worried I would not be able to read text in VScode and I definitely can very sharply see that text, no worries. I did edit music sheets in Guitar Pro, model a small object with ProBuilder in Unity, write a bit of Golang in VScode, no issue whatsoever, all are doable and am very happy with that as it means I can do anything I usually do on my computer with these glasses on ...
I definitely experience blurry edges, I can't read anything in any corner, not to mention that there is not one position I can put the glass in which allows me to correctly view the screen in its entirety, I have to readjust them on my face constantly when looking at the top of the screen or the bottom of the screen.
I think they are just perfect for watching shows or playing video games, where it's not a big deal if sides are a bit blurry or cut, but for text this is very very annoying.
I will try to play with nose pads adjustments and some of the hacks people have shared to improve experience, I don't intend to return them because I still see value in being able to isolate myself with netflix or a switch when my son is attempting to get asleep near me, but sadly that's just a portion of what I intended to use these for, I can see how doing my other tasks is kinda doable but also frustrating with the blurry edges issue.
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2023.06.10 11:59 ThrowRAari16 My (27F) bf (32M) and I had our first major argument.

My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. We moved in together very early on in our relationship and I’m positive he’s the love of my life. We have an incredibly healthy relationship which we both admire and acknowledge often. We push each other to be the best versions of ourselves both in our careers and personal lives and it’s built on a foundation of strong communication skills. In just the year of being together, we both helped each other in many ways. I exercise more because he inspires and pushes me to do that and read books he has shown me that have developed my personal growth. As a financial planner, I have helped him in an area that he wasn’t really good at before meeting me that he was able to save six figures in a matter of months from having me push him to being disciplined in spending habits and learning to invest. These are just a few examples and there are plenty of others in how we have flourished as individuals as a result of being together. We really have never had any major arguments as a result since we talk everything through logically and always look out for each others feelings. I have been through a lot in my life (battled cancer when I was young, broke off an engagement 2 years ago, etc) that when I met him, I knew what we had was special so I avoid ever nagging at him or picking fights because at the end of the day I love him a lot and enjoy having a blissful relationship very much. He tells me on a daily basis that he can’t wait to propose to me and have kids with me in the near future (1-2 years). We talk about life goals and aspirations and how we will get there together. We also have incredible sexual chemistry. We have sex regularly and we get nasty in bed to fully please one another.
Lately, my boyfriend has been too tired to have as much sex as we once did. It has made me craving it more and we bickered a handful of times but last night, we had our very first major argument… Basically, I went away for a work conference for the entire week. While at the conference, I ordered online a door sex swing to spice things up in the bedroom. It’s also worth noting that he had a toxic relationship in his early 20s and he told me early on in dating that the only reason why he stayed with that girlfriend who was incredibly toxic was because the sex was incredible. He had mentioned they had a sex swing that he got for her and I told him that I would love to try that and he said he would enjoy that with me as well. I paid an extra $15 to overnight it so it can get in by the time I got back from the conference. I got back Thursday late afternoon and sure enough the package was there. I told him I got a surprise and he loved it when he opened it up and set it up excitedly right away. He started teasing me on it and saying once he’s done with work, he’s gonna please me tonight from how much he missed having me all week. We ended up going out to dinner and he ordered dessert to go so we can enjoy the dessert in our sexual activities planned for the night. I was getting tingly down there from the excitement. By the time we got home and settled, he said he was too tired and to save the swing and sex in general for tomorrow night. Even though I was upset, I accepted it and said that I’m looking forward to tomorrow. Friday morning we woke up, worked out, and worked from home together with having an easy work day. We got massages after work and went over my parents for dinner. I noticed when he overeats, his sexual desires diminishes so on the way to my parents we joked about not eating a lot of food for the festivities we had planned for the evening when we get back home. Even while eating dinner we joked about it under the radar. I noticed he was eating way too much so I told him to slow down and my parents said why, it’s a Friday let him enjoy this food and he said,”well your daughter wants to go for a run after this which is why we are trying to eat light.” (going running is code for sex). We then watched the basketball game on the couch and I saw him get more and more comfortable to the point he said,”let’s save it for tomorrow, I’m tired again.” My heart shattered. I was so excited to have sex that night that I was literally throbbing down there all day and night. I got upset but didn’t say anything. Just kept watching the game saddened that I striked out again. By the time we drove off, the argument started. He went on to say that he doesn’t like being pressured into having sex and we should have it when we both feel like it. I expressed to him how I don’t feel as desired in the bedroom as I once did and my emotions carried me to say that he seemed to enjoy the sex so much with his toxic ex girlfriend and asked why he can’t just make the extra effort tonight to have sex with me, the non toxic loving girlfriend. He said he doesn’t appreciate me bringing up his past especially because it was nearly a decade ago and he’s 32 and a grown man now. I continued to express how it was upsetting that I haven’t seen him all week and was really looking forward to making love and respected it last night when he said he was tired since it was a weeknight but the fact that it’s Friday and only 10pm and he can’t give it to me makes me feel insecure. He said he is simply tired and went on to say,”I don’t want to be with someone who nags at me for sex and I don’t like the fact that you carry your emotions on your face like the way you just did at your parents while watching the game when I told you it’s not happening tonight.” I got quiet and said,”do you not want to be with me?” he said,”I want to be with you. I just need you to know that I’m willing to walk away from someone who acts the way you’re acting right now.” I apologized and told him I would be more self aware of my facial expressions moving forward and won’t nag at him for sex ever again and will keep it to myself. The rest of the car ride was silence. I teared up a bit because the fact he threatened a breakup like that was heart shattering. When we got home, I got out the car and gave him a kiss and hugged him. When we got in bed, I expressed that I don’t appreciate threatening a breakup especially when we both know we have such a healthy relationship. He said he loves me to death but is “keeping tabs” when I anger him to that degree because we are not married and again, he’s willing to walk away if he sees a quality in me he’s not willing to live with for the rest of his life. I’m writing this in the middle of the night because I can’t fall asleep. I’m pretty hurt. I understand I was in the wrong in that situation but again, him wanting to contemplating jumping ship the minute there’s adversity from a relationship that is peaceful and blissful 99% of the time is very hurtful. How should I go about this tomorrow morning when he awakes? Move on and learn from this?
TL;DR: In an otherwise healthy, supportive relationship, my boyfriend and I hit a roadblock over differing sexual expectations. I bought a sex swing to spice things up after he expressed his exhaustion, referencing a similar experience with an ex. But he’s been too tired for any activity, causing our first major argument. Despite his alarming threat of break-up, I'm left confused and seeking advice on how to move forward.
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2023.06.10 11:58 Papa-o-ROM Moonlander Trackball

Hi all!
First post on reddit to told you about my journey of adding a trackpad to the right thumb cluster of my ZSA Moonlander. After a month of use, I finnally found a near perfect layout, the only thing bothering me is grabbing the mouse. I found the QMK mouse keys to me awkward to use and finally stumbled upon u/nov1n post about integrating a ploopy nano https://www.reddit.com/ergodox/comments/13h9zox/ploopy_nano_mount_for_moonlander_thumb_cluste. But it needs another USB cable on the desk and some QMK quirks for devices communication (like this https://github.com/mrossinek/qmk_firmware/tree/mrossinek/keyboards/ploopyco/trackball_nano/keymaps/maddie). @nov1n also has a great idea with a frankenball (intergrating Logitech M575 in thumb cluster): no more cable as it is wireless but no scrolling as no communication is possible between Logitech proprietary firmware and QMK. So I ask ZSA about thumb cluster ribbon pinout and it happends there is an unused i2c bus available! I take a look at available i2c pointing device drivers in QMK https://github.com/qmk/qmk_firmware/blob/mastedocs/feature_pointing_device.md. The only trackball available is Pimoroni. I ordered one and a FPC16 breakout board. And with trivial changes in my QMK firmware, it kind of works! Main problem is that the cursor is jumpy an lacks precision (and is scratchy). I'll try to improve that in software but, reading comments here and there, I fear it won't be possible to have something I like. So, I've got some questions:
Any ideas how to improve Pimoroni trackball experience?
Do you know of a i2c sensor able to track properly? (I should be able to write a QMK driver from existing code)
Another possibility would be to hook a MCU in the thumb cluster an make it translate SPI to i2c but that's a lot of work.
Maybe it's also possible to change Ploopy firmware to communicate with i2c instead of USB? This last solution feels great to me because QMK already have i2c communication between MCU for split keyboards). But my knowledge of QMK is insufficient at the moment. Any tips to get started?
(Of course, there is the Cirque touchpad option but I don't like them very much)
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2023.06.10 11:57 Zagors2020 What's wrong with Idaho?

In 2007, the statue of Anne Frank in Boise, the capital of Idaho, was torn down, and before that it was plastered with discriminatory stickers.

In 2020, the statue was once again the target of stickers.

In 2021, the tunnel near the memorial park is covered with offensive graffiti.

My black friend told me an anecdote from the 1980s, when she went camping with the Boy Scouts in Idaho, that her mother was shocked when she saw, you know, tattoos on the other parents. She and her mother were the only people of color in the group so they were asked to leave the gathering. I stopped for a moment and I can't believe that so many parents in a small place can represent such ideologies, even tattoo them on their bodies.

Many have probably heard of Richard Girnt Butler, the founder of the anti-constitutional organization that was shut down in 2001 and had been active since the 1970s. In 2012, a similar idea was started again, but it did not take root in the full sense, although even today there are still some similar organizations and aspirations for the return of what was abolished with great difficulty.

I have a feeling something is wrong with Idaho. Can you share your or other people's experiences? Is it really that bad? The country is beautiful, ideal for a vacation, but things like this worry me.
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2023.06.10 11:57 nobiababy P-311?

Is anyone here connected to this line? GPA was on our street 3-4 times and it hasn’t once been mentioned on any of the press releases/notices. P-311 is in Barrigada, near Rev&Tax, Barrigada Heights, & the Airport. Yet, we haven’t seen any progress…
My family is seriously losing hope and we have a feeling we won’t be getting power for another week or two. It’s been so hard. If anyone has any updates, please let me know?
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It's simpler to engage in behaviors like secretly monitoring their spouse's phone or even enlisting outside assistance from hackers when a partner cheats. Who am I, after all, to dictate how others choose to maintain their relationships? Prior to this, I was in a relationship where my partner's infidelity and the blatant lies I was being told nearly led me to lose my mind. I was curious to find out the truth, even if it was just to prove to myself that I wasn't crazy and that I had been right the whole time. You might possibly require the assistance of a hacker. To contact him, send an email to [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]).
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2023.06.10 11:56 Violet-Wildflower My kitten will only eat if spoon fed

I adopted my kitten in April and now she’s 6 months old and in that time I’ve learned what kind of food types and textures she likes so I stick to those so I know it’s not that type of issue
And last month she wouldn’t eat out of her bowl so I got a higher one that doesn’t have raised sides in case of whisker fatigue, and she did start to eat more
However, for the past couple of weeks I’ve noticed that even if she’s really hungry and is asking for food, when I do put some out for her she will only take a few bites. Now I always give her about a 1/3 or 1/2 of a wet food can and I’ll put it on her plate using a plastic spoon and sometimes I’ll let her lick the leftover food off of it and then she’ll continue to eat off of her plate. But now I’ve noticed she won’t go near her food and will only eat if I’m using the spoon to feed her every bite
Is this just a result of me accidentally spoiling her? How can I make her go back to eating from her plate? Any advice would be appreciated!
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2023.06.10 11:55 seedlessxwatermelon My BF's mom is so toxic

Not technically my MIL, but I figured this would be a great subreddit to get advice.
I (28F) have been dating my boyfriend (29M) for just under a year. His mom is extremely toxic. Luckily she lives across the country, but she's visited a few times and each encounter with her leaves me more concerned about having to deal with her if I do marry/have kids with my boyfriend.
I always tell this story to my friends to help portray how insane my boyfriend's mom is: when he was 5, his class had a handwriting booklet that a different student would take home each day and practice writing a letter of the alphabet. Apparently, she would flip through the booklet, find the neatest handwriting and tell him he had to "beat that handwriting." And would then photocopy his page and make him practice his letter over and over until it was perfect, before he could write it into the booklet.

A summary of some standout interactions I've had with her: -The first time I met her, she interrogated me about my ex, what he looked like, what his job was, what his mom looked like (wtf?). Also on this same first meeting, she perseverated over my ethnicity (Asian) throughout the ENTIRE dinner and then "jokingly" asked if I would be interested in "a half Asian nurse" (referring to her daughter's boyfriend (yes... my boyfriend's sister's bf)). Also kept telling me her dad looks Asian (they are not Asian).
-Recently her father and mother died within a month apart. Note: I've never met either of them. When her father died, I immediately reached out, sent condolences and flowers. Then, when her mother died (I was working that day and didn't have a chance to reach out immediately), she texted my boyfriend literally just hours later and asked "why hasn't 'seedlessxwatermelon' reached out yet? Your ex did."
-And the most recent interaction that spurred me to post this: she flew in for an impromptu visit this weekend and while I was in the other room, I overheard my boyfriend show her pottery mugs we recently made. She then proceeded to say "Is that hers? You can tell she's a psychiatrist, she's got issues. It's very abstract. She's a psychiatrist, they're all weird."

And here's the kicker: according to my boyfriend, she "loves" me and is constantly asking about me. "Is seedlessxwatermelon still going out with you? You need to treat her well."
This woman is quite frankly, exhausting, and has a severe personality disorder. As the "weird" psychiatrist in her words, I am certain her parenting has really negatively impacted her children, and my boyfriend acknowledges it as well. He has the insight that she was so hypercritical of him, that he has deep rooted insecurity and had to seek validation through casual hookups (an issue that has impacted our relationship, and we are still trying to work through). He has commented several times that he owes his brain/success to her, so he could never cut her out of his life.
Although my boyfriend and I have had our share of issues (that I truly believe stem from his upbringing by his mom), I really love him and am feeling good about the direction our relationship is heading. I, however, am feeling more and more concerned about his mom the more I interact with her. If she stays across the country, I'm willing to grit my teeth and endure occasional visits from her, but I am terrified she will want to move to my city if my boyfriend and I every get married/have kids. I absolutely do not want my kids near this toxicity.

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